Would you rather sit and cry?

There is a story that goes something like this, A man was sitting and crying in a bus station. People were passing him by with out thinking twice. An elderly man stopped and asked "what are you doing?" "Crying" said the man. "Yes but why? a grown man like you shouldn't cry on the street, whats the matter?" asked the old man. "I got on a wrong bus, rode for hours and by the time I realized that I was going on a wrong direction i reached here". Old man could not understood so he asked "why don't you take a bus and go where you want to go?" The man looked puzzled, "but I have done a terrible mistake should I not be crying? should I not repent?" asked the man. "No! you should find the bus that is going to the destination you want to go" told the old man. "But". the man tried to reason. Old man interrupted him saying "would you rather sit and cry while your goal is still far away ? why not be sensitive next time, why not cry and run towards your goal , why not be a man instead of a cry baby?

So I ask you would you rather sit and cry? would cry and be fat? would cry and be skinny? would cry and be lazy? would you cry and be with that asshole/bitch? would you cry and continue studying the boring subject(EEE in my case) ?............?